[PearlsNLace]

I dont know if it makes me a delicate flower..

( I really dont see myself as one, but opinions are like sets of skin. We all have one)


I curse sometimes. But Id rather not be hanging out in an environment where every other word that comes out of someones mouth is a F*cken mother F*cker, or worse.
And I dont really care whos mouth its comming out of. A femmes, a butchs, or paphigleos for that matter.

It doesnt offend delicate sensibilities. I just feel akward and out of place in such a conversation.

I get in places in my life when I feel less articulate and the cussing increases. That usually passes when I figure out what issue Im struggling with at the time. It can take a week or 2 for me to sort it all out.

I believe I treat people with respect and dignity. I would like to be treated similarly. And I dont feel that its different across the butch femme spectrum.

That being said- there is a bit of The Dance, of being treated with extra courtesy specifically because I am a lady, that does thrill me.

I will freely admit it. I love it. If those are silly old antiquated rules, Im ok with that. If that makes me a delicate flower, well, then fine. Ill be a an Orange Poppy, my home states flower then.


I dont believe such a desire to be treated with a degree of decorum and respect makes me any more or less awesome. Nor does the lack of such desire for that treatment make anyone more or less awesome. We just roll different ways.