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Originally Posted by evolveme
Actually, yes. Except not consciously, which is important to remember. It occurs in the same way that a good deal of the tension among feminine women (like-among-like) is about underlying competition. It's a theory of evolution, anyway.
And again, it's exacerbated by the conditions of patriarchy, which are quite negative (obviously) and not conducive to the more positive features of informal in-group dynamics (team building, support systems, community-building, etc.).
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I get it and I don't. Here is why.
I am not competitive when it comes to partnering up. I am good on my own, I don't have issues getting some or dating. So for *me* that head space does not exist.
I can see how it can play in to all this.
I also have to disagree that it is a butch transguy issue, and this is just my opinion.
We have the power to stop it if we want, or to watch the chest bumping when it comes down to us as future *mates*
So yeah I don't get it and I do cause I don't roll that way.