a little of the clarification you asked for...
earlier when i pointed to dylans post i was in some weird spot in my head that was just saying 'hells yeah' really loudly...
he said a lot of what was in my head very thoroughly and well... i obviously couldnt do it...
i have read several very insightful posts here... many from folks of the femme persuasion that i appreciated immensely...
i had read too many posts from folks that refused to see or hear the parts where i said that i in no way thought a femme was weak or helpless or in need of rescue...
i was amazed at how many had to speak up and say that this was an absurd topic because by god they werent that way so it must not exist...
i saw dylans post as very easy to understand and so well said that it was unarguable...
and... yeah... i know not all of it applies to not everyone... but... enough of it was what i wanted to point out that i got all giddy and shit and had to give it a big hell yeah!
thanks yall for the thought you have provoked...
a lot of us do not respect femmes the way we should...
a lot of us are guilty of pushing ourselves on or above a femme without thought...
if this helps anything... i welcome the idiocy i was exposed to for broaching the subject...
thanks yall...
p.s.
i feel i should apologize for being in my own head for most of my posts in this thread... i sometimes have a hard time getting my thoughts to words... i know that i cant expect everyone to understand what the hell i am trying to get at...hell maybe i shouldnt expect anyone to get it...
no one else knows i am in actuality a stand up kinda person that just likes to look at stuff from a lot of different directions... even a lot of them that arent and never would be mine own... everyones opinions count to someone...
sometimes i like to try to find out why...
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