Fiercegrrl,
Zofran is wonderful! Use it to your advantage. I took it when I had my surgeries. It did wonders for nausea. Plus if you have hospice workers there with you, your mother cannot take your medicines. They will take that over first thing.
Remember that hospice is a service. It is not giving up, honey. No No No. I will tell you what I told my sister when this service was offered to us. I said yes and she looked at me with huge brown eyes. I could tell what she was thinking - I was a nut in writing her off. That was the last thing on my mind. It meant that we would have backup giving us more time together. We would not have to worry about the little things in life that take our time up. Let them worry with that. If we wanted to sit outside on her shaded deck and enjoy the garden, and lawn, then we had the time to do so.
Nobody knows the end. Nobody can tell you that. No doctor, no nurse. Get that thinking out of your head.
You are on my mind, and in my prayers. Know that I love you dearly.
Love and Peace,
Drew
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