[Ebon]

Originally Posted by naturlover_52

This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind...
I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too.
OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice:
I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women.
I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago.
MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know...
Thanks.

I agree with Liam and also want to add that when I'm interested in someone I watch the little things that they do. Some things may be insignificant to others but you can learn a lot about a persons character by little things that they do. It's also hard because sometimes unexpected circumstances lead to certain situations in life that people never thought they would be a part of. Good luck with your search.