[Zimmeh]

I agree with both Liam and Organicbutch. My ex thread stalked me before we started dating and when she decided to end the relationship, she threw a lot of stuff in my face that I had written on the other site over two years earlier when I first joined. From what I have seen, is that she still goes and looks at my profile page on the other site and has had her friends pm me here on this site to see what I will tell them of the breakup. I learned a hard lesson and one I won't repeat again. I have met some wonderful ppl from this site and the other site, and I haven't let what she did to me affect my trust in ppl.

Have fun today,

Zimmy

Originally Posted by naturlover_52

This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind...
I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too.
OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice:
I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women.
I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago.
MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know...
Thanks.