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	Have to agree with you. So, seems we need to look at how we present facts. It all comes down to communication skills and regard for other's, I believe. Thinking about when people feel put down instead of informed with respect for who they are. Sometimes the messenger is the problem.Quote: 
	
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					Originally Posted by Gemme  People's opionions are a fragment of their self as they know it.  The more you try to change their view, the more it feels as if someone is trying to change *them*.This doesn't surprise me in the least.
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 It doesn't feel so good to think that someone is cutting you, the person down, instead of misinformation you might be holding on to.
 
 But, this article does bring much to light in the whole of it. Thanks, Linusfor posting this. Food for thought.
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