[JustBeingMe]

Hang in there Ruthie. I know there are peeps out there that play mind games, been there too and still in the midst of it for now, have a long story behind that, not for here. I find that dating on the internet is just not for me. I have found too many women online that are nuts or have mental issues that I can't see right away and it's caused me a lot of issues that I won't go into here. So for me, it's all real time now or nothing. And friends first for the first year or so, date them, see how it goes. I don't intend on living with another woman for several years....protection mechanism for me. Anyway, I just wanted to add that there is nothing wrong with being friends and dating for a while and seeing how it goes, without having sex or doing the Uhaul thing. You will be able to weed out the ones that you don't need to have in your life better. Keep strong, your a good woman, Ruthie. Oh and I wanted to say that not all peeps online are like the ones I have had problems with and they are not all players, I don't want anyone that reads this to be offended. There are some really great folks here. I just haven't met any good ones to date, so I am just going to keep it in real time.