07-29-2010, 06:48 PM
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interesting....
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Originally Posted by chefhmboyrd
yeah i think it's time i write that book, i bet we all could too!
what NOT to do........
#1 do not give away all your power during the honeymoon sex part.......
as in have a backbone, don't let your partner run the whole show. that sets the tone and culture for the whole rest of the relationship.
have and opinion and express it. don't be afraid to disagree. even if you don't feel real strongly about something don't jut roll over and say "scratch my belly again please....."
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so...... if someone say, 'tops from the bottom' or takes hold and climbs up in Hys lap and takes what she wants.... did I just take Hys power away?
I dont think that ever came into play during the honeymoon part, or 4 yrs later in the ol married couple that we are now, lol...
whether I am told what Hy desires, or if I am guided that direction, simply told flat out what Hy wants, or what Hy is fixin to take or the look in Hys eyes that tells me I can take what I want, since I've been such a good girl... I never thought Hy was giving any of Hys power away.
so is that what you meant by rule #1?
being genuine here, no snark, no nothing... genuinely curious
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