[JinxdGirl]

Hey y'all! I figured I'd post here since I am single and new to the site. If nothing else maybe I'll make a new friend or 12.

I'm 31, originally from Texas although I currently live in North Carolina. My last relationship ended in 2008 and I haven't been actively looking to change that. However, things change and I'm starting to think it might be nice to have someone special to spend time with.

I live with my best friend and her two daughters, which makes me a sorta-parent and I often call them "my (or our) girls". We also have 2 chihuahuas, a rat terrier and a cat. My best friend, Monkie, and her girls are my heart family. Monkie, the girls and I are a package deal. They will always be a part of my life, therefore it's imperative that the person I'm interested in can accept and embrace them as well.

I stumble when trying to explain the type of person that I am most often attracted to. It's all about masculine energy for me. Butch, TG, Gender Fucker, FtM, you get the idea. Older than me is always better (and I've seen the older crowd here wondering why some of us seek older) if for no other reason than I've stuffed a lot of life into my 31 years.

I'm kinky to a point, my kink doesn't rule my life but I certainly welcome power exchange and rough play whenever it's available to me. I consider myself queer, because I'm not a lesbian (transmen are men afterall) nor am I bisexual (the prefix "bi" means two and I firmly believe that there are more than two sexes and infinitely more than two genders.)

I'm in a period of transition in my life. There are big changes on the horizon and I'm opening my world up to the possibilities that lie ahead in all aspects of my life.

I ramble at times, when I have a million thoughts on something and am trying to get all of my points across. I can be a silly, silly bitch at times and anyone that wishes to be a part of my life has to accept that, ideally not only would she/hy/he accept it they'd embrace it.

And, as impossible as it must sound, I've never been on a date that wasn't with someone I was already in a relationship with. This whole going on first and second dates and feeling a person out (I didn't say feeling them UP!) is completely foreign to me, but something I'd lovelovelove to experience sometime in my life.

So, yeah .. I think that's me in nutshell (awful big nut for this sized shell). Any questions? Feel free to ask, this is more information that I've volunteered about myself unprompted in a long, long time.

- Jinx