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Originally Posted by NJFemmie
When arguing or disagreeing, don't make things up based on what "you" might think is true. Too many fights escalate into something entirely different leaving a person to defend themselves from against unfounded accusations.
I'm amazed how many people actually do this sort of thing.
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Or, a slight variation of this,,,if you (generic you) get confronted with doing whatever it is you shouldn't have been doing (lying, cheating, etc.) don't deny, deny, deny and accuse the person of making unfounded accusations and putting a guilt trip on them for suggesting such a thing, only for them to find out that said accusations were in fact not unfounded at all. But then again, if someone is already violating a relationship in such a fashion and they get caught, a few more lies on what is quite possibly already a big pile probably seems insignificant to them at that moment.
Glynn