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exactly, Undunn....she doesnt get why i am so upset over "those freaks" as she called transmen. Like I was the one being irrational.

Yes, I screen well. I am really not looking to date but I leave those profiles up. She was pressing me for a meeting asap. I dont do that. In fact, lol, one way I thwart cassanovas on the prowl is I say I dont have sex with anyone until I have known them a year. Giggling. You can almost hear the THUD!

But the real reason I screen if to keep fruitcakes like this away from me. I have had to push people away because they were racist but this is the first time I have had to deal with transphobia.

I love this site. It is a safe place. I am in a comfort zone here. Even when I disagree with someone, or feel bullied sometimes when my opinion is attacked, I am STILL safe here. My values are safe here. I had forgotten about the world out there, with people who say the N word and who think its ok to turn on people in our rainbow. I had a rude reality check today.

I will actually pray for her for a fortnight. Its an AA thing. And I will pray for her healing, for something somewhere at sometime, was turned against her or someone she loved to be able to manifest that level of anger and hatred at a group of people she obviously knew nothing about. She was aghast that I date FtMs. Thats when she said I wasnt a lesbian. LOL. I am more lesbian than she is! I love women. I also happen to love FtMs.

oh well, I am feeling much better tonight than I did this afternoon. Thanks for letting me come in here and rant. I am SO sorry you guys have to put up with a world like this...