I don't think there is a pretty answer to wrap up the divide between the GLBTQ community and what many of have suffered/are suffering at the hands of those who invoke their Christianity as a means to hate us. The Christian, Mormon, and Catholic unabashed disdain for our community is not something we can say doesn't exist.
I had a band of christian mothers demand that my son be expelled from school because of the presence of myself with my partner at that many concerts and performances because it's a Fine Arts Academy. I swear to GOD they went all the way to the school board.
Do I hold all Christians responsible? No. Do I hate Christians? No. Want to know why? Because REAL CHRISTIANS would not participate in that kind of hatred. Unfortunately, this country is brimming with people who think that they are Christian while at the same time practicing a religion that in no way resembles the teachings of Christ.
Should I pretend things like this video are not prevalent in my life? I can't. But I promise that it doesn't mean I'm a God hater because I refute the hatred thrown my way.