12-08-2009, 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted by SuperFemme
Feeling invisible is never a good thing. Invisibility is a fact of life for me as a Femme. I have to come out over and over again.
Pixiestars. Thank you for your post. It reads to me like you choose to be silent for various reasons. That doesn't mean I am right, it is just my read. May I ask you if you *feel* silence when working within your boundaries?
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I hear you about the coming out over and over again.
I have had to stay silenced about myself due to job restrictions before. For the comfort of others, which sucks.
Yes sometimes I choose to be silent for prevention, but there are other times its been an instance where I was in the middle and a "so there", "you're wrong period", "done with you" emphasis was left on the end...and the ringing silence was all that was possible. If that makes sense.
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Unexplored glimmering in the rough How does a diamond hide?
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