My very first post on a b/f site ages ago was me jumping into a poly thread saying that I "wasn't morally capable" of doing poly.
It has taken 8 years for my ass to grow back.
Bah.
You live, you learn. I just want to make sure that Nerd knows we really ARE a loving bunch (with an extremely high nerd population).
So Nerd, don't mind us. Your ass will grow back, and this place really is super special in tons of ways.