View Single Post
Old 09-05-2010, 06:00 AM   #46
The_Lady_Snow
MILLION $$$ PUSSY

How Do You Identify?:
Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
Iconic Ms.
Relationship Status:
Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles
 
The_Lady_Snow's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: ** La Reina del Sur**
Posts: 22,488
Thanks: 32,231
Thanked 80,080 Times in 15,669 Posts
Rep Power: 21474874
The_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST ReputationThe_Lady_Snow Has the BEST Reputation
Exclamation

Quote:
Originally Posted by ravfem View Post
*waving a white flag* i come in peace!

Y'all are gonna jump on me, i know that and i'm trying to prepare myself for it. i don't like getting jumped on, and so i usually just don't post when i disagree with the majority, so i'm not sure why i've picked tonight to post.

Maybe it's lack of chocolate....

i have seen other posters attacked more vehemently than this one, but to say that some are being nice by calling the original post stupid?? Really? Just because some of the more progressive, forward-thinking, PC among us think the post was stupid doesn't mean it was, period. Many people will read and laugh and nod their head, knowing it is a ha-ha, not a bible. Then they'll read on and the smile will disappear quickly. Hopefully if they are new to the site they wont assume the entire site and the population who post here are all like some of the subsequent posts.

i was not offended by the post, but then again i don't make a habit of taking things personally, in general. i know the post wasn't about me. i recognize it was a ha-ha kinda thing. (old, but still...)

Yeah, i am like some of the things listed. But still, the post was not about me, and it was not about you, personally, either.

Why do we prefer calling posts stupid (or worse) rather than just ignore them or at least try to be courteous when we let the person posting know we don't agree?

It feels mean to me. Rude. And i'm sure that someone will respond with "well i found the post rude". So.....because it was rude, you have to be rude too?

Some tell me that i am unrealistic and naive. Maybe i am. Or maybe i'm overly-sensitive. OK, maybe that's it...i'm overly sensitive to what i feel is rudeness the same way others are overly-sensitive to what they feel is stupid? (often, i work out my thoughts while in the middle of typing stuff...it's how i process) But i just don't get why it's so easy to be mean & rude. And i'm not saying that every response has been mean. So if you weren't mean, then don't take this personally

i really do come from a "why can't we all just get along" place. i know that it's not possible, i know that we're all individuals with our own thoughts and feelings. And i know we all have equal right to post how we feel.

But dang....how about a little kindness?

One last thing.....about what i said in the beginning about getting jumped on? i don't think, for the most part, most posters mean to jump on others....but it does happen.

*hands out flowers to everyone who would like one*



I don't feel I was unkind and I don't feel I have to dismiss a sexist post, ha-haing about jokes that make femme's look like passive aggressive cunts is not my cuppa.

I hope that Nerds takes the time to read the link I left them. It's just not cool to come up into a thread and post rules about how huffy, tempermental, manipulative, passive aggressive femme's are and how the poor butch just sits there and nods like a circus monkey.

As for the jumping theory, I don't see it, I see it as people being not ok with posts and threads like this, that are demeaning.

__________________
"If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden


The_Lady_Snow is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to The_Lady_Snow For This Useful Post: