I do think that there are new members who haven't had a chance to think about the underlying assumptions that make these jokes funny, not to me, but to plenty of people.
I don't think it helps anyone learn or that it builds community to jump down that member's throat, but
Perhaps the OP is very young and hasn't had the opportunity to consider why it's dangerous to make broad sweeping statements about femmes and butches.
So this is her chance.
What makes these jokes funny?
At whose expense?
How does is make us feel good about our community?
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