[Julie]

On a very serious note... Caustic Princess (a schism in terms).

I am sure your OP was truly innocent and wondering! How do we (who are we?) attract butches?

Without getting into the stereotypical diarrhea of the mouth while standing on my pedestal at Butches R' Us -- And turning my sisters and brothers into a band of paper dolls, as certainly - we all look the same (note sarcasm).

There is NO WAY to attract a BUTCH - There is NO WAY to attract a FEMME. Sorry, but it's kinda like changing a diaper - there is no one way to do it.

Bottom line... It's about self-respect! If you don't respect who you are as a human being, you aren't going to attract anybody. And if you wear that "come hither," look on your person, you might as well wear a big warning sign. Nothing scarier than the in your face pursuit.

I prefer subtle, both in pursuing (the hunt or so that is what this topic feels like) and being pursued.

Julie who perhaps is just getting too fucking old!