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Originally Posted by Arwen

I think it may be weird if it is not a known TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship. I've been in those (with bio males and butches). Giving up the power is freeing on one hand but there is a loss of self if you and your Dominant are not careful.

ah, you're right and i wasn't clear--i meant to speak specifically about a femme who isn't necessarily connected in any way to the butch she's deferring to. but good point on the TPE.