Hi Phead I'm new here as well. And we live in the same state. Fayetteville is home now for me. I'm from upstate NY. Anyway I know exactly how you feel!!! Are there any butches out there who aren't unemployed, or addicted to something. No offense intended , just really starting to wear me out. Maybe one with a little intelligence, not be lacking in self-esteem, someone who is focused and has a plan in life. Someone who isn't afraid to work , and "being pretty good at drinking beer", is not what they want to be known for. Maybe I'm too superficial, but I'd like one who has their own money, their own car, and perhaps even a home owner maybe.

Someone who can display a little responsibilty and make sounds decisions in life. OKAY I will be quiet now. (stepping down from my soapbox)