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How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian.
Relationship Status: Happy
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic.
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message to self.....
always remember and never forget:
~ trust your instincts. Call it womens intuition, gut feeling, the voice of experience....if you feel it, there is a good reason for it. Ignore it at your own peril.
~ never get drawn into gimmicks, personas, images and the like. Reality is a lot more satisfying than fantasy.
~ differences may attract, be exciting for a bit, invigorating for a while but it is sameness and similarity which brings peace and harmony.
~ seek that which will surround you with peace and positivity. Not difficult. Just choose the opposite of your initial impression. Sorry, private joke.
~ if it makes you think too much, rationalize at all, makes you unsettled, makes you uncomfortable, makes you question "can I live with this?" - turn and walk in the other direction. Good things seldom require that much effort.
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