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Old 10-28-2010, 12:06 AM   #118
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I am working my 12 steps of AA and doing my inventory and you know, I have discovered a whole bunch of stuff about me.

Including how I define love.

as well as how I have settled for what wasnt love

and

how I justified it in my head.

I put down in an earlier post that I need attention to feel loved. Thats correct. I do. Its the number one thing I must have from someone in order to feel loved. It doesnt have to be alot. It doesnt have to be lavish. But it has to be ENOUGH. And if I have to spell out to them what enough is, then I dont feel loved. Period. Its simply not the right relationship for me.
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