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Originally Posted by Arwen

G, it's not easy. OrganicButch and I managed to maintain a friendship. Admittedly, we actually discussed what would happen if/when we stopped dating. We may not be besties but I trust him and would go to him with issues. I know he would have my best interest at heart.

Also, some women don't have good boundaries (hello, I've been one of those) so you may need to set up new ground rules like "no contact for three months" or something so you can process and move on.

Love you. Mean it. Want some cake?

Thanks Arwen! I made mention that I need some time and space to deal with my feelings and to start moving forward and it got all ugly with accusations of "you said you would never leave me" kind of stuff. It has gotten to the point that I want NO contact if it is going to be all passive aggressive and stuff.

She wants the friendship right NOW, and I just can't act like there were never any feelings involved. Boundaries have been set...trust ME!

Thanks for your input!!