[LipstickLola]

Originally Posted by Kobi

It was fun rereading the last few pages here. Your answers helped us to get a better picture of who you are and what you are about. Always a nice thing, with pleasant surprises as well.

I noticed folks saying that it is difficult to find femmes or butches in their particular area, even if it is a well known or close to a well known "queer" mecca. I live about 30 miles from Ptown so I know what you mean.

One of the problems I have as a butch who likes femmes, is my gaydar is differently abled. If I think someone is queer, they arent. If I think they arent, they are. If I think someone is flirting with me, they arent. If they are flirting with me, I am oblivious to it.

So, my suggestion for a topic today is how can impaired butches like myself distinguish a queer femme from a straight femme in everyday living?

Hope everyone is having a good day. Look forward to reading more here later.

When meeting someone for the first time, I make extra sure to give super good eye contact, a firm hand shake, big smile with a little wink. It has worked