[bigbutchmistie]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Im assuming this question is to the butches? If so here is my response

People always are wondering with me cause Im not easy to attract or get my attention. My friends say the "stars have to align" lol

What get's me is a true girly girl femme in looks....

What keeps my interest is her heart. Can she make me laugh? Can I trust her? Is she loyal? Is she consistent? And does she think I hung the moon? Can I talk to her about anything and everything? Does she listen? Is she there when I need her without question? Am I a priority for her and not an option? These all are huge things with me.

A perfect date for me would have to be the old dinner at a resturaunt. Just talking and getting to know each other... Other first few dates would follow with things like movies, picinics, walks in the park, and then....

I might cook for the person in my home. Something quick and easy with candlelight..

I have no gaydar when it comes to femmes. Hell Ive even stated Im 2x4 and that is so true. How a femme would get my attention she would have to be blunt. Not subtle and see above

Age wise I prefer my age 34 or older...

Looks physical wise? Its never mattered to me but Ive always been partnered with size 24 and under

I have dated a woman that made more money than me. Hell she was a vice president of a marketing firm here in dallas. Didnt make me any difference. I didnt feel the need to "take care" of her, nor did she me. It was the best relationship I ever had

Um if we are going to wait for me to ask you out well dont hold your breath. Im shy and again 2x4 so that's probably not gonna happen. I need someone who would ask and then be point blank that its a date cause Im just that slow LOL

So these are my answers

It was early morning like 4 a.m. when I posted this.. I forgot to add self confident and nurturing type adding to what keeps my interest Sorry