[WolfyOne]

Originally Posted by katsarecool

Questions were asked by Kobi for the Femmes. Now the shoe is on the other foot.

What kind of woman/person/femme would interest you?
I don't have a particular kind of femme. I don't care if she's jeans and tee shirt with no make up or girly girl with all the frills.

A favorite type of date; one that sets the scene for repeated datings with the same person?
I think dinner and conversation works best with no strings or expectations attached.

Would you cook a meal for your date and if so what would be on the menu?
Since I'm a butch that enjoys cooking, I'd ask if she'd enjoy a home cooked meal and what her taste in food was before I decide the menu. My last question to her would be my place or yours because I want her to feel comfortable. I don't think I'd do the intimate setting because expectations can be assumed by it.

Do you have trouble with your gaydar finding that feminine woman who is a lesbian? It's a crapshoot, sometimes yes, sometimes no.
If so what would you suggest we feminne women do or wear to get your attention? I think you femmes can spot a butch from anywhere, so if you want one of us, approach us, we're not mind readers.

What age group to you prefer to date? I used to say age is just a number and would look into the soul, but since my ex and I split, I think I'd stick within 10 years up or down from my age.
Does body size/type matter to you? I've dated them all, big and small....so, no.
What other physical attributes to you find attractive? I look at a person from the inside out. For me the attraction has to come from within because looks can be deceiving. Lesson learned at a young age, letting my eyes and head rule my thoughts without my heart being in it.

Would you date a femme that made a considerably larger salary?
I don't see money when I'm dating someone. I date them because I enjoy their company and they enjoy mine.

On the first date, would you prefer that you were the one to ask her? Or are you okay with being asked out on a date by a femme?
It doesn't matter to me at all. Once again, not a mind reader.

Can't wait to see the answers and I may have more questions later...

Let me ask you this, if a femme asks me out, should we go dutch so neither of us hold expectations after the date? Would you prefer to pay or expect me to pay? How exactly would that work, so we both feel comfortable on a first date?