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Originally Posted by naturlover_52

why is it that straight people especially women....therapists especially try to hmmmm get us to dress differently.

I am soft butch and I am MOST comphy in Tshirts w/ Sayings/characters and jeans and or shorts...and I don't always LOOK Shnazzy...GREAT.... and get looked at as IF I don't WANT to take care of myself. BUT I just don't know how to change...LOOK different AND I sure AS hell DON"T do make up.....

JUST asking and needing a lil advice....

Thanks....

Originally Posted by naturlover_52

I also wear solid colored shirts...and the winter hoodies....I am a soft BUTCH and this is how I am most comphy....JUST don;t know how to dress....the only word coming to mind is glamorous, BUT I am thinking,,,,Proper is the better term

thanks

I do get where you are coming from...I have everything in my attire from sweats and tanks to a soon to be suit...
I am most comfy in my work clothing (work boots, jeans, t-shirts and hoodies)...

A few soft butch things:
Have you tried polo shirts...same type of material as t-shirts but with a collar...
If a full button down shirt is not too butch than soft(I have no clue) then those are great with a solid t-shirt under them with the top 2-3 buttons undone(been told by a few femme's that's yummy...lol)...
Darker blue jeans look sharper than lighter colored...
hoodies are ok...solid colors best(no rips/holes/stains...even tho my fav is this way...not best in public...lol)
They make sweatshirts and sweaters that have a zipper at the top...still a pull over but a little more "style" than just a hoodie...

Just a few suggestions of course...and my own personal opinion...Just trying to take what you said you are comfy in and spruse it up a little