[cuddlyfemme]

Originally Posted by cody

yeah for friday!! i dont think stone has anything to do with it.. me personaly i think to many people have gotten umm .. for a loss of better word "lazy" in thier dating habits. i know i feel i have in the past. counting on the computer to do all the work for me instead of actually putting on my best getting out there and meeting people i would toss a few things out on a dating site and wait for replies.. didnt work for me either.. met a dew stalker and some very strange ones. but now i feel there is no one "like me" within 100 miles of where i live. being stone and very close to male id'd i may end up falling back into dating straight women. in the past for me this has caused nothing but proplems, fights with hetro guys, being put down for who i am an what i love. i dont want to go to jail for fighting "again" so ill sit back in the "lazy" roll and hope someone comes my way putting me,my dog, my harley,my home and my truck befor dating.. usually keeps me busy an happy and i know eventuly if its meant to be for me it will happen when it should.

I'm glad to know that you don't think that it has anything to do with being Stone I was talking with a good friend last night who happens to be a Stone Butch and we were talking about this subject and hy was saying the same thing...that its hard to find a Stone Femme because alot of them seem to be dating hetro guys...thats something that I won't do. I know what you mean about getting lazy. Being new to SC, I'm not sure where to find the butches...maybe I need to go to Home Depot or Lowes lol. I do agree with you on if its meant to be, it will happen but I still get a little impatient at times. As for dating straight women, I'm sure there are alot of Femme's that would love to date you