[Andrew, Jr.]

I have learned rejection very well. And in doing so, I live for myself. When others belittle me because of my haircut, my weight, my disabilities, or whatever, I think it is on them. Something must have happened to them to have to say that to me to be so mean and nasty. I am very sensitive to others. I sure would love to be loved by each and everyone. I have no clue as to what unconditional love is. One day I will. And like Jet, it is just a matter of living day to day.

I have been dis-invited to parties too. I recently made a huge error in judgement. I sent pictures out to several people. I thought I could trust and love them. Instead, they used the pictures I sent them as a means of criticisms and jokes. So, I learned my lesson. Not everyone is who they say they are online. Sad but true. And the debates over my name/gender change...I had no idea it was really anyone's business but my own. Well, it just shows me about peace, love, and respect. I think everyone needs to have unconditional love. No matter what. That is why I pray for people all the time. It is my hope that we won't have this ugliness much more. I want everyone to just love each other. That's all.

Jet, like you, I let anyone just say whatever. I try to listen and understand. And then they get mad at me for that. I am not too sure of why. I am no where near a threat to anyone. I am a very simple guy. But like you, I have learned the art of walking away. Sometimes it is the best move for me.

Peace.