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Originally Posted by apocalipstic
I think a more open scenario where the child knows where they come from and has some sense of heritage is best.
Those of us from closed adoptions have no clue what our past is, no sense of clan, or familial ties.
I get that in 1963 things were bad for women, but when I finally did meet her she told me her parents said she had to give me up if she wanted to go to the prom. They she married someone else shortly after and had 2 kids. She has a master's degree. In my case it was a convenience thing, not a survival thing.
I do know that still the rhetoric is that to say that parents gave us up out of love and should be happy and thankful and beholden for being adopted out of misery. I have heard it all my life.
I think I am angry at society in general for believing that children are disposable and will forget and can be given away when they are at their most defenceless to who knows what. Having sex is a natural thing, and I wish I lived in a world where children are treasured and not looked down on for being illegitimate. Its just insane to me that this is how society works.
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That too is a thorn in my side, thinking kids are disposable as well as animals.
Society sucks and always has