Security; knowing I'm safe and respected
a Partner that doesn't expect me to be the sole care-taker, provider and cook in the kitchen (I'm so tired of doing it all myself for the past 30+ years)
Support and Compassion
Hugs and quality time with my nieces
tender kisses on my forehead at the end of the day
Someone (friends, family, lover, et al.) to share dreams and life with, and not someone that sucks the life out of me or kills my dreams and cuts my connections with family & friends like my ex of many many years ago did.
family dinners where we can share our day's events and quality time together
Space of my own when the time is needed; without having to defend why I need space
Shared Space where their presence is very comforting and reassuring.
the sense of Familiarity and Protection