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Daddy Raven · 11-22-2010, 10:16 AM

My mom and dad saw a Facebook picture of me getting a kiss on the cheek from a pretty femme and gave me a very hard time about it. I didn't intend for them to see it but my Father was spying on my Facebook account and saw it.

My family is very homophobic. I'm butch and my Mom & Dad and one of my brothers just hates it; they're always giving me a hard time about the way I look and dress. My Mom calls me "ugly" all the time and my brother says, "why do you have to look like that?! You're embarrassing me!"

I'm supposed to go to Colorado for Christmas but I'm nearly sick on my stomach about it. I love my family but they put me down and make me feel pretty bad about myself. Stress!! I can't decide on what to do. Should I just go and suck it up or should I cancel my plane ticket and stay home. I hate the idea of losing nearly $600 on a non-refundable plane ticket but I'm beginning to think it's better than spending 10 days with my family and having a lousy Christmas.

11-22-2010, 10:16 AM	#4787
Daddy Raven Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/Androgynous Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17 Thanked 65 Times in 26 Posts Rep Power: 6155	What is on your mind? My mom and dad saw a Facebook picture of me getting a kiss on the cheek from a pretty femme and gave me a very hard time about it. I didn't intend for them to see it but my Father was spying on my Facebook account and saw it. My family is very homophobic. I'm butch and my Mom & Dad and one of my brothers just hates it; they're always giving me a hard time about the way I look and dress. My Mom calls me "ugly" all the time and my brother says, "why do you have to look like that?! You're embarrassing me!" I'm supposed to go to Colorado for Christmas but I'm nearly sick on my stomach about it. I love my family but they put me down and make me feel pretty bad about myself. Stress!! I can't decide on what to do. Should I just go and suck it up or should I cancel my plane ticket and stay home. I hate the idea of losing nearly $600 on a non-refundable plane ticket but I'm beginning to think it's better than spending 10 days with my family and having a lousy Christmas.