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bright_arrow · 11-24-2010, 12:40 AM

don't ask for anything you're not willing to do/give yourself.

don't tell me what i want to hear and then get upset when i ask why you didn't follow through.

i will defend you and our relationship, i expect the same.

don't tell me constantly how you don't deserve me. it stopped being flattering the first time. i like you and i want to be with you, accept that.

don't talk about your ex all the time, or i will start mentioning mine, and neither is a topic either of us really want to have, yes?

don't cut me off when i am talking or be abrupt with me. i don't respond well to rudeness.

don't consider my loyalty as permission to walk over my emotions and feelings and think i won't do anything about it.

when i'm quiet, chances are i am dealing with some inner conflict, and i will talk it out when i'm ready to.

don't lead me on. if we're not on the same page, i need to know this, and agreeing with what i say to avoid hurt will only make it worse in the end.

don't talk about having a child with me if you're not serious. i want to be a mother some day, even if it's becoming a step-mother to my partner's child.

don't grope me when i am angry, especially if i am angry at you.. it results in me contemplating if the jail time is worth hitting you with a frying pan

11-24-2010, 12:40 AM	#429
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	don't ask for anything you're not willing to do/give yourself. don't tell me what i want to hear and then get upset when i ask why you didn't follow through. i will defend you and our relationship, i expect the same. don't tell me constantly how you don't deserve me. it stopped being flattering the first time. i like you and i want to be with you, accept that. don't talk about your ex all the time, or i will start mentioning mine, and neither is a topic either of us really want to have, yes? don't cut me off when i am talking or be abrupt with me. i don't respond well to rudeness. don't consider my loyalty as permission to walk over my emotions and feelings and think i won't do anything about it. when i'm quiet, chances are i am dealing with some inner conflict, and i will talk it out when i'm ready to. don't lead me on. if we're not on the same page, i need to know this, and agreeing with what i say to avoid hurt will only make it worse in the end. don't talk about having a child with me if you're not serious. i want to be a mother some day, even if it's becoming a step-mother to my partner's child. don't grope me when i am angry, especially if i am angry at you.. it results in me contemplating if the jail time is worth hitting you with a frying pan