[Julie]

Originally Posted by Passionaria

Although they can do things that really hurt me or make me angry at times, I don't know how to throw them out of my heart. I'm not always sure that is a good thing but it is true, I suspect for many. I find that bitterness comes when there is unresolved hurt.
Pashi

Passionaria,

You really struck me with one part of your post, and that is what I am quoting.

I have had anger thrown at me from exes and I know I have done the same thing... And always, it is because there is an unresolved hurt. Which is why I try to resolve it with them, always - so we can heal and remember the love we once shared. I will always go back to Rachel who died 4 1/2 years ago, and had we not resolved - I just cannot imagine how my heart would hurt and always wonder.

In my very little world, I believe it is a good thing. It shows the kind of human being you are. That you have a loving, understanding and nurturing heart.

Thank You and I so wish for you, a most beautiful holiday.

Julie