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Originally Posted by katsarecool
Ah oh!!!! Not a good move on her part!!!! Perhaps you could sit her down and get her to make a Pro Con List and discuss it? How will she live with no job and no money? And the guy doesn't sound too reliable. I hope she changes her mind.
My sister did the same thing; moved from NC to Chicago with a man she had not actually met face to face and took her twelve year old daughter with her. I begged her not to do this. I even offered to pay for a plane ticket back for them both when it started going south. She stayed there with him for two years until he was caught peeking in her then 14 yr old daughter's bedroom window. That did it.
Good luck to her!
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My sister has met him - he lived here for awhile. When they were 15 he stole a gun from his grandparents and pulled it out on some guys that had teased him, while my sister was with him! He was in jail beginning of this year for stealing and she told him no more.
I think she intends to move in with him and work down there and get her dental assistant diploma via financial aid. I know she wants out of our parents house and that's part of the reason why she doesn't want to stay living with them (aside from the fact that they are moving into the country and about an hour North of where they live already). I moved out when I was 18 with the person I was dating to get away from my family as well. I'd hoped it'd changed, but I guess not.
I can try and get her to think about this more but we'll see. She's only 17
If nothing else, she should of learned from my multiple mistakes when I was that age.