[WolfyOne]

Originally Posted by sassy_girl

why do I let my bio family HURT me so ??

I used to let that happen when I was younger with my mom and 2 older brothers until my Dad and I had a talk. He told me if I don't let them see they've gotten to me, eventually the thrill they got from it would go away and they'd stop. He also told me if what they said or did bothered me, rather than confront them on it and give into their little game of hurt that I should write it all down on paper. He then proceeded to tell me to read and reread what I wrote until I get it out of my system. After I felt like it was gone, I should crumble up the paper and throw it away. Honestly, it worked and the game they played called hurt me, stopped when they finally got that they couldn't get to me anymore.