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Originally Posted by softness

I have been single for two years now. Contently single most of the time. Certainly content the past year. And in this time, I have learned awhole lot about friendships as opposed to relationships. I have spent my time gleening friendships instead of romances and have found some incredible life long friends. Some, I swear, are soul friends. As deep and rich and chocolatey as a soul mate but I might not have appreciated their qualities had I been dog sniffing a relationship instead of friendships. I can feel their arms embrace me spiritually in some cosmic fold, secure over the ages, throughout time, over space, no more obstacles in this life to seperate us. I feel so cherished by them...and I can weep over the love I have for them in my own heart...

I have grown so much as a soul these past two years. Sometimes I am just the earth girl whining. Sometimes I am the spirit soaring. Either way, its a delight in this life...both sides of the same coin...

Excellent post and I am of a similar state of mind!