So last night i had the opportunity to watch a player play....made me smile, to think they thought they had good game.
Then i felt ashamed because i was judging the player on only what i saw, not knowing one bit of their behind-the-scenes feelings/stuff.
Then, it made me think about me....i've been called a player, and it hurt. So i tried to think what is it that made me any different than this other playa?
For me, when i was called a playa, i really got my feelings hurt because i knew that i wasn't playin, i was being very real and was feeling very intense feelings toward the person....but all he saw was how i was behaving and stuff like that...he had no way of knowing what i was feeling (i remember telling him i wished i could make him read my brain or something like that).
So, my lesson learned was to stop judging on what i can see on the surface, because i am ignorant about what the real story is. The only person who knows the real story is the person being judged.
How unfair of me.
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