Ever just gotten in your car and drove to a place far away by yourself and spent an evening eating and drinking and meeting strangers?
Yes--I've went "just driving" around with no schedule or intended destination alone (and with someone else--recently)
Do you enjoy going to the grocery store?
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You can’t change that system by just getting your own rights, tinkering with the engine and leaving. You have to take on the whole machine.
--Riki Anne Wilchins
Hold on to the lessons, let go of the pain.
--Leslie Feinberg