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Originally Posted by EnderD_503
There's a difference between the way a person wants to be seen and the way the majority of society actually sees them. Because of that, there are a lot of social/economic issues and challenges that touch transmen that don't touch straight cismen to the same degree no matter how a transman wants to be seen. While a transman is no less of a man than a cisman, he does have different challenges, because of the way society perceives trans people, that will likely persist throughout his life. Those challenges affect the way he walks through the world.
I think that's the issue for a lot of people under the "trans" umbrella.
They may not always or necessarily want to be seen as different when it comes to gender, but the statistical reality is that we are at a much higher risk than other men. That, I think, is where a distinction should be made for the purpose of improving human rights issues.
It also depends on the transman/woman. Some want to be seen as specifically transmen/women, or no gender specifically, while others want to be seen as simply male/female. Or a combination of identities. I don't think any one way of looking at it can be applied to all trans people.
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Yes I understand that. Not being seen as how we want to be seen- that is true for most all of us. Butch is not well understood and we are not always seen as the women we are (for those of us who do view ourselves as women).
Yes, I agree that the risks and challenges that trans people face should be identified and worked on/fought against.