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Sounds like what might be missing for you is the "dance" of butch-femme. That can be a very powerful, and if that dynamic is part of your base attraction to someone, then you'll always feel something missing in this relationship. Too bad she dropped the "L" bomb, otherwise you might be able to have a lets-have-fun-but-lets-not-get-serious relationship.
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