OK I have a completely different take on this.
Why can't you just date this person you really like and just have fun?
Tell her you think its too early for her to say she loves you. Hopefully you have not said it back. Every relationship doesn't have to be about eternal love.
And just saying, if you can talk to this woman and tell her everything, that is very powerful, and something you won't find in everyone. Develop the friendship, you may end up deciding you feel more for her as time goes on. If not, you have developed a friendship that may be important to you for years.
Above all, do not lead her on. Lies hurt more that the hardest truth.
Good luck sweetie.
Smooches,
Keri
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