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Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
Serene Highness ;}
Relationship Status:
Dreamily contemplating some outrage against conventional morality
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Houston area
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When faced with assuming an action or word is malicious or just stupidly thoughtless or what have you, assume the best.
Remember your paramour is not perfect and is a flawed, failing, wonderful human being, just like you are.
Change is hard and it takes time. If you and your honey bunny are trying to change patterns that started in either of your childhoods or wherever in life, mistakes will be made, don't freak. Pick yourself up, dust off and start again, with consistent dedicated work you will see change, however, it is not instant.
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"I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction. "
Ayn Rand, Anthem
"So you'll die happily for your sins. You'd rather die in guilt then live in love?" Timothy Leary
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