First of all Jack from Will & Grace is not a femme so please don't use that comparison again.
Let me see if I can help:
You're a boy looking for a butch Top of the masculine nature?
Did I hit the nail on the head?
I'm gonna let you in on a secret girl doesn't equate sissy, or does it NOT equate laying on your back collecting pony stickers etc etc.
The verbiage you used can be read as insulting towards women, femme's and girls.
Also just in case Daddy = Femme

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I'm Snow I'm a Femme Daddy nice to meet cha and good luck on you Daddy search.