[atomiczombie]

Originally Posted by SoberBoi

Chancie,

I was talking to someone from BFP and she said to just ask people about their experience finding a Daddy. I want to understand the Daddy/Boi dynamic better.

As for the "who's going to be the girl" comment, what I meant was that I personally would want to be with a stronger butch than myself, but not wanting someone who would try to treat me like a femme to complete a butch/femme dynamic.

I want to be with someone who understands that, while I may not be a tough butch, that I am still male identified. I like to say that I am like Will from Will and Grace...not a femme like Jack, but not a very butch guy. Will was always trying to date more masculine guys, but he was lousy at team sports and other masculine myths.

Thanks for responding. I really want to hear other people's experiences of being in a Daddy/Boi dynamic.

Thanks,
SB

What does being male identified necessarily have to do with being butch? There are lots if not most butches who ID as women.