Wow! This is cool.... I am getting lessons already! I like that "Femme Daddy" phrasing that was awesome.
I did not mean to isolate anyone with my lack of proper verbiage. Everytime I am being topped by a butch-er female-identified partner, they like to call me a Sissy. But, I do top well. I am a good boy (boi).
As for the "who's going to be the female", I want to totally retract that because I did not mean it how it came out. I didn't want a butch who was used to dating stone femmes to assume that, just because I wasn't the Daddy, to assume I was going to cross-dress (put on feminine clothing) to role-play or stay on the bottom.
Finally, I am male-identified in that I do not consider myself a woman nor a man, but I do consider myself a boy in thought and feeling. I say boi instead of boy because I do not want to transition now. When I was a teenager, I thought it would be cool to trans. People call me she or Sir, but I still think boy.
I now prefer having female parts, especially when I am on the bottom.
I don't want to turn this into a "what do I do in bed" discussion because I believe that is rude in front of the ladies, but I am not shy in private conversation.
I just want to understand. Okay, so I get the Daddy/Boi thing is rare and strange... maybe I am still getting that wrong... I have had butch lovers who occasionally like to wear eyeliner, but I draw the line at fingernails (ouch!). There are female-identified butches/strong females that are more butch than I am at times. I like that too. If they are in public, I open doors and other gentlemanly gestures. If they open doors for me, they are definitely male-appearing. I open doors for female-appearing partners and am protective. Either way, I tend to be submissive to a more dominant partner.
Is my foot still in my mouth? (my fetish isnt feet... I do love muscles, tattoos, nice chests, and I love uniforms or button-downs). My mother is Irish and would totally freak if she knew I was having this discussion.
Keep teaching me. This is fun
