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Old 05-15-2011, 11:47 AM   #2
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Well Merlin, in following some of the threads U have started,
it would seem you have been thru some shit.


One of my Bruthas...is a Femme. (love U Snowy One) It's just not as simple as
one or the other at times. One of my oldest and dearest friends is now a
Female; transitioned after the age of 50. We still cut up like we did 25 years
ago. I love Kari (used to be Bob) and I love who she is. Her Gender never
swayed me from being attracted to her as a life long friend.

I get it though, some who Identify as Butch get a little stoopid when
they arrive in the Company of someone they perceive as 'more butch'
than themselves. Or the likes of myself, presenting with Domme
energy...seems to have triggered a few Masculine Identified
folks to get...stoopid and start acting like their Machismo just
got dented. That's a perception that belongs to them, their
reactions belong to us.


Filtering friends by Butch n Femme?
I can't say that this is something that I do on a conscious level.

I am sitting here trying to scale the numbers,
if one is much more than the other.


It is not, for me.


Looking forward to reading this one.




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