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Go with the version of your story that feels best to you when you tell it. Make yourself happy and please yourself. Let everyone off the hook from having to please you or from having to change in order for you to be happy. Don’t blame, complain, explain, ...or apologize. Appreciate what shows up in your life, acknowledging that you called it to you. Let go of perceived offenses quickly. Don’t harbor negative thoughts or feelings. Don’t get trapped in the mental tyranny of stuff you can’t do anything about. Pull back and generalize more when the details become too much for you. Find something to appreciate, praise, celebrate and get excited about. Identify your deal breakers, dealmakers, and personal requirements. Assess your strengths and weaknesses, and then go with your strengths. Be more concerned with being real than being good. If it’s not working for you, don’t export it. Know that the power of your Presence speaks volumes. Have faith that things will get done even if you don’t do it. Invoke joy and freedom by acknowledging your personal power. When your inner being decides to move on, go with her. --Ajike Kendrick