[clay]

Originally Posted by Mr.Nobody

Thanx y'all for the nice welcome.
Clay,I suppose I should clarify. I have been around the Planet for some time, and I have a post here and there. I have been licking wounds from a relationship that left me totally confused and thinking I had no idea how to be in one. But with the help of some very special people, I have come thru the fog and am ready to chill and make some friends, get some advice and have a little fun.

Hey Mr. ahhhhh I see! TY for clarification!!!! Glad to see you back ,then....smile! Have a great day....wonderful peeps here....while I didn't have a bad relationship, at all...we had 15 wonderful years...and I lost her to Cancer , two and a half years ago....I DID have my own pain, grief, and healing process...which a wounded heart is a wounded heart...no matter how it got that way....the pain is there! Anyway I am now ready to have a love of my own again. It is very hard in the dating world...so much has changed......and communication is seemingly so non personal, what with technology of today. I miss the face to face or person to person talking....the getting to know one another, talking, talking, and talking, dating and courtship aspect of it. I am an OFOS butch lesbian! (manners, respect, courtesy, etc..I am sure you get the picture...).. Point is.....I am a greta listener if you ever need to chat....sometimes someone who isn't on the "inside" can see things more clearly! I am sure most folks here are willing to help out, support, encourage, and anything you may need in friendship....later MR. Have an incredible afternoon!!! Clay