[ruthie14]

Originally Posted by ElusiveButch

Hey Ruthie, it's so easy to get caught up in the wanting a relationship that we forget to see beyond that. I know because the same happened to me a while back. What I learned for myself is to request a pic first so you know who your talking to. Love is not an easy thing to grab ahold of. But you have friends here to support you. I'm one of them- Handsome aka elusive.

Thing is .... she live a mile away from me. See her in real time, she has met my friends, I have met a couple of hers...sigh

anyway, thanks everyone... had our phone conversation and it seems she was hoping I would "forget" what I said to her and do what she wanted... more or less... not that mean, just wishful thinking I think. Left it in her court to slow down or just friends... makes me sad.